A Reflection, on Two Brain Urges.

To the males,

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Guys, I want you to take a quick moment to reflect. . . .

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Reflect on how often your male brain thinks about sex

when you’re just by yourself.

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Now think about how much more driven those thoughts become, when you’re in the presence of a female. ….

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Think about the first of many thoughts which involuntarily cross your mind when you see a very viable female from across the street, or in the gym, at the shopping mall, in town, at the beach, at the office, in the airport, even on TV. ….

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Think about the possibilities which instantly flood your brain when you run into a hot woman who isn’t putting you off by being a cunt, and in some cases she may even be actively trying to get you to notice her (or so you think)! ….

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What goes through your mind the entire time? . . .

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Certainly like most men, your brain starts conjuring up images of various activities you could do with this woman if she’d let you, especially what she’d look like during sex. And while such images may differ from one man to another – depending on what your sexual fantasies are, what your favorite sex position is, what romantic fairy tales you’ve been brainwashed to believe in, what types of sexual kinks and fetishes you’re into, or what level of depravity you’ve successfully achieved in your journey through some valley of weird debauchery – the bottom line is, from the first time you set eyes on a viable female,

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Your mind involuntarily goes into, “Hmm, what kind of sex would she be good for?” 

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So like most men if given the right circumstances, you start checking to see how far this viable female would let you enter into her life, or what she’d let you get away with. ….. And I don’t care how sincere you claim your intentions are, or whatever you call your motives for “just being friendly to her,” at the end of the day you and I both know it’s all part of building up to see what’s underneath that dress. However, cos you’d want to come off as a civilized person and not some barbaric animal, you start by throwing out some social cues in her direction.

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Perhaps you introduced yourself first; telling her your name (cos no woman trusts anonymous dick); or you gave a compliment or made some jokes, testing to see if she’s on her lunar-tic cycle, so you do not step on her feelings.

All of these you’re doing, to gauge how she’d react to the R-rated material you’re hoping to pitch, or if you should keep dancing around her bush with irrelevant topics, before you pull out the more suggestive pistols to shoot.

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You might even cut corners and go straight to finding out if she’s available or taken. And sometimes even if she lets you know she’s already taken, some predatory instinct inside you causes you to stay and poke further, you sly fox!

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Cos you’re looking for loopholes to see if her “in-a-relationship” status is as serious as she wants you to believe, or if she’s simply trying to abdicate accountability so it doesn’t look as if she started it. …. (P.S: for the record, I have no idea what “to abdicate” means, but I’ve heard smart people using it).

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So you keep trying to see through that veil which all women wear; you’re trying to discern if she’s just another dirty skank hiding under a mask, or if it’s truly not your turn today. You want to know if she was kinda already looking for another right guy to monkey-branch to, so you can start selling her your CV right now; and even if you do not qualify for the position, if she might make an exception for a one-day trial. So you suffer through these ceremonial leaps and dances, like a circus dog, jumping through hoops and over various obstacles which women set before men. And (whether you consciously realize this or not), the major reason why you can’t help it, is because

Men have a high sex drive!

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…. Now I could delve into all the humiliating and sometimes monumentally stupid things which men could, would, and have done as a result of their sex drive, while trying to get the approval of a viable female. But you know we can’t fit them all into this little blog.

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So here comes the main point of making you guys reflect on how often the male sex drive consumes a man’s thoughts; are you ready?

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Equate or correlate all of that, to what flashes through a woman’s mind when she sees a viable male who could be useful for something, anything!

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Then ask yourself,

When women see me, of what use are they usually thinking I’d be good for?

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Yes, YOU; when a woman determines you could be useful around her (like right now, or perhaps in the future) if a problem should arise, what do you think is going through her mind? . . .

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Like, what various resource-providing fantasies is her brain conjuring up, to use you for? . . .

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What’s that favorite position she’d like to place you in, as she pumps all of her emotional insecurities into you while testing your flexibility and resilience? . . .

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What emotional kinks or drama fetish is she thinking of playing out through you? . . .

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What level of crazy would she enjoy driving you to, the same way she’s done with other males before you; men whom she had no regrets tying to a relationship post and gnawing at their minds until they either lost it, or became pussy-whipped? . . .

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Now while these may not seem as obvious as what men do when they start paying special attention to a female whom they’re interested in, women do exactly the same thing with subtle nuances.

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So first, they start by shit-testing and checking to see

Which hole in her life, this man could fill.

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Which (temporary or permanent) position should he be assigned to?

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What role(s) is he qualified to play in the movie about her “queen-dom,” while she supervises you guys from her chair-position as casting director?

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(And whenever it’s time for a little in-house re-shuffling) What promotion, continuation, demotion, or transfer to another department of her life, needs to be done with you?

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Before you know it, you sir, have being drafted into her army of utility men; the numerous males whom women virtually surround themselves with, to meet their various needs.

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From,

• the rag/ mop/ tissue guy, whom she uses as an emotional tampon to soak away worries, anxiety, fear, depression, stress, gossip and other latest events that are happening in her life,
• to the bodyguard she uses to white-knight on her behalf, to “serve and protect” her from consequences of her actions whenever she gets called out by other persons for misbehavior,
• or the daddy-figure/ older brother guy,
• the bank whose role is to shit out money to cover her upkeep, expenses, luxuries, and be there in case her lifestyle or comfort is being threatened by her own spending,
• the aide who gives advice, so she doesn’t have to learn anything the hard way,
• the courtier who regularly boosts her confidence with small compliments,
• the plumber who comes around to ensure her self esteem isn’t leaking, by plugging likes and comments on her social media posts,
• the fan who cheers for her to win the jealous competition she’s having with other women.
• the jester who “knows how to always” make her laugh,
• the maintenance guy who changes her car tires in winter, for free,
• the mechanic who changes her engine oil in the garage, for cheap,
• the stud who actually changes her oil in the bedroom, for STDs,
• the help who does those little things like, “Could you reach to the top of this shelf and get that thing for me? Cos you’re tall and have long arms, that’s why I keep you around.” 
• the valet who never fails to respond to, “My car broke down, could you give me a ride to work?” (Oh boy! I was that guy recently; I fell for it again!)
• or the tool she found useful but she doesn’t need right now (or anymore), so she tries to loan you to another female who could use you. Yeah, she’s got this one friend whom she thinks would really click with you. …. (I notice I’ve become this to many of my friends’ wives; relentless twats keep trying to set one up every year).

… the list is endless.

And just like we couldn’t fit up there, all the things men do just to get a woman’s approval, there also isn’t enough space here to write out all the things women do, to keep men at their beck and call for:

1. Resources,
2. Help in distress, and
3. General utility purposes.

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And I’m not talking only about women whom you could possibly have sex with if offered an opportunity; I’m talking about

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Every woman who’s ever met you, has run you through her imaginary checklist

to see what you could be useful for, before (albeit subconsciously) deciding which department in her life to place you.

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As an example, even my own mom keeps her sons in rotation for various roles (except stud, of course), and depending on when one gets tired of being used to fill a particular role or has caught up to her tricks, then she re-shuffles the roles again. In fact, the closer in proximity you are, or how often you come in contact with a woman on a daily, weekly, or periodical basis, the more frequent her reassessment of your usefulness occurs, cos she wouldn’t want her seemingly secure world to suddenly crash, while you’ve been here all along and could’ve been used to save it!

That is also why women who’re close to you, always look shocked when you suddenly announce that your role in their world is about to change, for example that you’ll be going on a long trip, or you’re changing jobs, or you’ve started seeing a new girl, or you’re moving to a different city.

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So in case you’ve been blind to it before, your reassessment for utility purposes is regularly carried out by your closest female acquaintances; your female work colleagues, your female boss, your female neighbor, your landlady, your sister, your sister’s friends; your friend’s girlfriend or wife (especially, cos she needs to know if you’re becoming a threat to her security that is, if your happiness or contentment with being single, could cause her husband to start thinking of breaking free).

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And like I said, since the more frequent you come in contact with a female the more frequent she’ll keep check-listing your purpose in her life, this means

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The woman living with you, or who spends the most time at your place, is the female most constantly reassessing the various roles you play in her life.

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Whether this is your mother, your girlfriend, or your wife, you are her primary skills assessment test subject, before she looks elsewhere for someone who’s more qualified for the role she needs to be filled. So for instance, your wife has several times reviewed your role as rag/ mop/ tissue, before deciding she wants to start seeing a therapist, i.e. a professional plumber, or maybe start using another male (perhaps, a work colleague) to occasionally plug her emotional drain pipes.

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Look, women just don’t say these things out, the same way guys don’t say out to every viable female they meet, that they’re imagining what she’d look like naked. But just as males can’t help thinking what a woman could be good for, in bed, females are always checking to confirm what you could be useful for, in their life!

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In other words, while

Men have a high sex drive,

Women have a high nag drive!

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(Now if you wanted further proof, to drive this point home) ….

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You may have noticed that whenever a woman is being extra friendly towards you, your male brain starts wondering if she wants to have sex with you, why? Cos that’s exactly what your brain would be doing if the positions were switched, that is, if you were the one being extra friendly towards her. ….. On the other hand, when a man is being extra nice and courteous to women, they become suspicious, thinking you just want to “use” them for a role (usually sex), cos that’s exactly what her own female brain does whenever she’s being extra polite to a male whom she needs to serve a utility role in her world!

So now you also know why, after a relationship breakup or right after having sex with them, women often feel like they’ve just been “used,” cos her female brain is projecting it’s own intentions throughout the relationship upon you, thinking yours is the same. Meanwhile, you could have stayed if only she had other things to offer besides sex, such as an all-round pleasant personality with good cooking skills, instead of the additional nagging and drama.

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(Now lemme just say this here):

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What you do with all of the above information you’ve just read, is left for you to reflect upon, before you decide how it’ll henceforth shape your mentality around females.

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As for me, I’m learning to

Respond to female nagging

and women trying to utilize me,

in exactly the same way women respond to a male they don’t want to have sex with!

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Oslo MGTOW