About, avoiding the Paris/ Romantic Syndrome, where people travel somewhere with the highest expectations of what said vacation was supposed to look and feel like, but then they become highly disappointed.
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I had this blue pill friend with whom I’d planned to travel one summer, to see some wonderful places around Europe. But he refused to come along, unless I took one particular destination off the list! Why?
Cos he “didn’t want to see the place all by himself for the first time, alone.”
So I asked him, “But dude, both of us are going there together, so what do you mean “all by yourself” alone?”
Turns out,
He was “saving that place” for the future!
In other words, he was hoping to take his future wife (whom he hasn’t even met yet) to that place, so he doesn’t want to “ruin it” just yet.
And that’s when I let him know, “Listen man, that girl for whom you’re saving wonderful experiences, is right now having all her wonderful experiences with other guys, okay?
In the future when you take her there, she might pretend it looks romantically awesome just to stroke your ego.
But inside, she knows she’s been to several places just like it, and even had more fun with those exes than whatever you thought you were saving this “special” moment for.”
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Stop fantasizing!
Stop dreaming about when you’ll fully live life with some “soul mate.”
Females are ungrateful and never satisfied (Briffault’s Law).
Gift yourself a great life now,
… and your life will love you forever!
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